What will you choose today?

What will you choose today?

In light of the recent acts and activities that have been going on in South Africa with women and child abuse, I felt I needed to put some thoughts and feelings down around this. I have chosen not to post or march or ‘fight back’ during this time and it has been a...
Life at (just about) Forty.

Life at (just about) Forty.

To those of you who have reached (or have almost reached) Level 40 in life; where are you compared to where you thought you would be? Does that freak you out a little? Never in a million years did I think I would be a divorced, solo mother again trying to get her...
Losing (my) identity

Losing (my) identity

I have had the same question time and time again….Why did you shave your hair? I have always been one to change my hair colour and style and my hair has seen every colour and style imaginable. Maybe I like to become ‘someone else’ for a while, being different, not...
A lesson in Patience & Faith

A lesson in Patience & Faith

Lesson: 25 May 2018 During weekdays, when my son is at home with the nanny after school, I often get a voice note from him to ask if he can watch TV. Sometimes I am busy with clients or in a meeting and cannot get to him at that exact time. So I answer as soon as I...
What is Love?

What is Love?

There are so many different perceptions of what love is. For me, the meaning of love has changed drastically over the years. I used to think that love from someone else was something I needed in order to be complete. It was a fabricated ideal of what I ‘thought’ it...